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ONE WHO SERVED HIS NATION AND THE COMMUNITY
MR. GREGORY FERNANDES OF BARKUR.
When we look back and turn the pages of the history book of Barkur
we come across many prominent figures. These people lived a joyful
life serving their nation, community, and the loving families were
they were born. One of these very prominent figures was Mr.
Gregory Fernandes. Although we may not have a written history book
about these outstanding citizens of Barkur, nevertheless they are
remembered because of their loving service to the nation and our
local community where they lived and died.
I
have many good memories of Gregory. In my seminary days I remember
he was always on time for daily mass. He was a disciplined man and
although he appeared to be very serious, he was very kind in his
dealings with his neighbors and fellow parishioners. I always
addressed him as “Fernandes Sir,” but others called him “Gigu
Bappu” out of respect. He was always willing to go the extra mile
to help his fellowman.
LIFE AND SERVICE TO THE NATION:
Mr.
Gregory was born on
April 29, 1935.
After completing his elementary and higher education he decided to
serve his country in the Military. He responded to that call with
great courage and enthusiasm and served in the Indian National
Army for 28 years. During that time he held many important
positions but never made others feel inferior to his position. His
motto was to serve his country whole heartedly with courage and
love. Although he was transferred to various parts of
India
he always accepted it in a good spirit.
MARRIAGE AND FAMILY LIFE
Gregory married Julia Clara Pais on
May 31, 1966 and
both began a journey of service to our nation. I am sure in those
days it was hard traveling from one part of the nation to the
other . But this couple had great faith in God, trusting that He
would protect them and provide for their needs. They were blessed
with 3 children; Venus, Sharmila and Premila.
Their children
were educated in Barkur and are now married and raising their own
families. Venus is serving in Bahrain as a major supervisor in the
Court of the Crown Prince. Sharmila obtained a Nursing degree at
our famous K.M.C. Hospital in Manipal and served a few years in
the Almana
General
Hospital
in Alkobar, Saudi Arabia, with her husband Rony Andrade. She now
cares for her family at home. Premila also completed her studies
in K.M.C. Manipal and is presently working in the Indian Postal
Service in Bennekudru.
Upon completion of his military service Gregory returned home and
joined his family in Barkur. Being an active, energetic person he
joined the
K.M.C. Hospital Security Force. Recognizing his leadership
qualities and dedication to hard work the hospital administration
appointed him Director of the Security Department, where he served
until his death.
SERVICE TO THE LOCAL COMMUNITY:
Gregory was always helpful to Barkurians who were seeking medical
care in the
K.M.C.
Hospital.
He visited them during their hospitalization, helping to make them
comfortable in a strange place. Knowing many of the medical staff
personally, he was able assist many people in finding a good
doctor. He also assisted others wishing to apply to the School of
Nursing or attend Medical Courses by using his influence and
making appropriate recommendations. He was also a peacemaker in
his neighborhood. When conflicts occurred in families, Gregory was
the first to be called to help in bringing peace to family
members. He was a humble person, never drawing attention to
himself, but always willing to assist others in whatever way he
could.
RESPONSE TO GOD’S DIVINE AND HEAVENLY CALL:
On
December 15, 1991 God called Gregory from this
world to his heavenly reward, there to experience everlasting
peace and joy in His presence. Although that day was very sad for
his family and many others who knew him so well, we had to let him
go from this world to God in Heaven. A few years later on March
26, 1998, his beloved wife, Julia, joined him in Heaven.
14
years have gone by since Gregory passed away but those beautiful
memories of all the good he did in the service of our nation and
local community is still alive in our hearts.
In
the name of our barkuronline.com web master Kishoo de Barkur and
team and also our parish community of
St.
Thomas the Apostle I thank you, Gregory. May you and your beloved
wife, Julia, rest in peace in the presence of God Almighty and all
those who have gone before us.
Fr.
Tony Andrade. |
