Although I respect every elder to the best of my ability, I wonder how
my brother Jemiaba took liberty in questioning the rights of elders,
who moved out of their homes, leaving their parents and little
brothers and sisters back to find some income to support them in their
distress situation. Its natural that those days the major distant
places were Mysore, Bangalore, Bhadravathi, Shimoga etc... but Bombay
was very rare and those who went to Bombay and returned annually or
once in 2/3 years received "Royal Welcome" and all attention, not only
from home people, but also from the entire village happened to be on
them. This was the trend those days and these days even if you come
from the USA or Canada after 10 years no one is bothered to look at
them !
Coming
to the income and the money transfer they used to do during those
days, though it was just Rs 10 or 15 as Jemiaba mentioned, this money
had much much better value and respect, I should mention, than what we
spend in thousands and lakhs these days. With just Rs 25/- a family of
four survived easily during that period. I can give my own simple
example here.
MY
PARENTS USED TO GIVE ME 4 ANNAS FOR MY LUNCH DURING MY HIGH SCHOOL
DAYS AT THE NATIONAL HIGH SCHOOL, BARKUR. I LUNCH AT MUDDANNA'S HOTEL
SPENDING 3 ANNAS AND ON MOST OF THE DAYS I SAVED 1 ANNA A DAY FOR
SPENDING ON THE DAY OF BARKUR CHURCH FEAST IN DECEMBER. SOMEHOW A
COLLECTION OF RS 4/5 MEANS A GREAT THING FOR ME AND OTHERS TOO.
Here I truly don't understand why my dear brother failed to understand
the value of Rs 10/15 he being about 4/5 years older to me and the
value of Rupees must have been very great then. Advising youngsters
back home is very important in life those days as only after leaving
their parents, brothers, sisters, pets, cows, buffaloes, pigs etc...
back home and leading a lonely life elsewhere they remember everything
that they left behind and cry. This makes them to advise the little
ones back home to do this or that. Definitely during their association
and stay with all of the above loved ones they must not have realized
or understood their love and affection and must have also given plenty
of troubles to all around including the parents BUT it is only after
missing them for long time their eyes have opened and they advised
their little ones in this fashion. Money had great value so also the
love for one another, which is sadly totally missing now.
Jemiaba, I have expressed my true feelings for what you have
mentioned. I always respect and love every elder irrespective of their
status in the society, caste, creed or religion and hope others too
show their mercy on EVERY ELDER of this world and God will definitely
bless them.
Charles F Lewis,
Bangalore, 31/05/2006
What happens to people when they leave home or Barkur?
When I was young in Barkur I used to hear the following comments from
my friends:
The
elder brothers or sisters who went to Mysore, Bhadravathi, or Bombay,
used to send Rs. 10 or 15 home, with a long letter telling or advising
the younger ones at home:
-
Obey your
parents.
-
Feed my dog
daily, and give bath, also feed the chicken and the cow.
-
Say your
prayers daily, and pray for us for our better health and for better
jobs so that we can remit fatter money orders.
-
Do not forget
to water the Tulsi plant.
Folks: What I don’t understand is how come they start advising things
which they never did before when they were home? How come they
suddenly get enlightened as to advise the folks back home? What right
do they have to tell us, without giving sufficient donation or any?
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How to run a
home?
-
How to run a
school?
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How to manage
the college?
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How to run the
temple?
-
How to run
Parish?
-
How to catch
fish or how to plant rice?
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How to harvest
rain water?
-
How to build
roads and bridges?
I
met a man today asking for a dollar. I asked him, “Why do you need a
dollar?”
“To
buy a 18 wheeler truck,” was his reply.
I
asked him, “Hope you know how to drive it? Do you have place to park
it? Can you afford the gas to drive this monster truck?
“Hey man, I asked you for a dollar. Not your stupid advice?”
James Fernandes,
USA, 30/05/2006
Keep the good work going on... SPA Mumbai is really doing it
so....Barkur Parish day details very good....photos are nice...
Financial advice is good...Archies corner need some fresh
intake....James Fernandes is back good sign....
Excavations work and related news need urgent attention of Govt and
academians... would like to know about SSLC and PUC results of Barkur
schools....Saw fresh column of Kishoo Barkur in
www.maibhas.com. Good work
continue the same....
Felciana D'Silva,
Kuwait,
27/05/2006
Dear Sr. Marie Picardo:
Barkuronline.com had generated a list of Vocations from Barkur. Your
name still shines 23rd out of the 72 listed, published in the ICYM
Silver Jubilee Memorial Souvenir in December 2002. Apparently, for
want of a mailing address, you are not getting any communication at
all.
We
are happy that Barkuroniline.com could be of help! Kishoo will help
arrange give your mailing address to Pedruchi Chaavi, a bi-annual
publication from Barkur Parish. Please give your e-mail address here,
or to Kishoo at barkuronline.com, or contact me at "Jimtoxic@aol.com"
There is no need to be, "Out of sight, out of mind!"
James Fernandes,
USA, 27/05/2006
Personally I failed to understand why the most popular Messages
Section of this site now a days in active!? Of course, updates are not
so regular, one can use the space to share feelings and opinions even
suggestions. It is my point of view that when the site confined to
Barkur and Christians in a big way, the readership and more precisely
interaction through messages was vibrant. The scope has widened but
new contributors not entering the fray. There was a time, I used to
eagerly wait for some interesting segments to get new articles, and
the wait too was worthy as most of them well written.
I
got the fairly introduced to Barkur and its glorious past through
these pages. It is my appeal, to Mr. Fernandes, Mr. Archie, and few
others to take rejuvenated interest in the Site to support the host in
his objectives to reach and satisfy more and more Barkurians.
M. M. Alvares,
alvaresmm@hotmail.com 23/05/2006
Dear Sir, I have left Barkur almost 40 years. In this past forty years
so far no one has send any news about Barkur nor any one has asked
where are the past parishioners of Barkur at least those who joined
the convent. It is really very sad. I hope and pray at least in the
future our parish of Barkur will try to do something for the past
parishioner who are out of Barkur.
Sr.Marie Picardo,
Daughters of St.Paul, 177,Kamptee
Road, Mohan Nagar Nagpur 440001 .23/05/2006
WISHES TO SILVER
WEDDING ANNIVERSARY (10.05.1981 - 10.05.2006)
Congratulations and best wishes on the occasion of your 25th marriage
anniversary. Our prithee with Almighty to shower his countless
benediction on both of you. From
Sachin Kumar
(Son),Suvidha
(Daughter), Friends & Relatives, Barkur.
10/05/2006
Congratulations
Dear Hebroyn,
Congratulations and God's choicest blessings on the happy occasion of
your first holy communion held on 7th may at
St.
Augustine's Church, High Wycombe, UK.
Herald, Gretta
(dad &mom)
Hayden
(brother) Pius Nagar/UK,
Gratian,
Sheela, Glenish, Glenston,
Barkur/UK.
Charles, Latha,
Chelsea,Dubai,
Flora D'
Souza
Pius Nagar,
10/05/2006
Is
second hand smoke bad for health? I doubt! "An old sailor gave up
smoking when his pet parrot developed a persistent cough. He was
worried that the pipe smoke that frequently filled the room had
damaged the parrot's health. He had a vet examine the bird. After a
thorough checkup the vet concluded that the parrot did not have
psittacosis or pneumonia. The parrot merely been imitating the
persistent cough of his pipe smoking master.
"By
calling Natal Fest for Christmas and celebrating it, I will be
supporting Konkani culture. Similarly Pasca Fest for Easter; thus I
pay my dues to Konkani Culture, I suppose!" Any comments, folks.
James Fernandes,
USA,
10/05/2006
Congratulations
Viona Gonsalves
D/O Mrs. Vera and Mr. John Gonsalves,(Mumbai), Barkur
Congratulations and God Bless
you dear Viona. Lots of love and wishes from your Loving Dad and
Mom. Also love and wishes from,
Mrs. Florine Gonsalves,
Barkur
Mrs . Josephine, Mr.
Alphonse and Anson Gonsalves,
Mumbai
Mrs. Gretta, Mr. Staney,
Sydney, Shiney and Sunny Lewis,
Barkur
Mrs. Jacintha, Mr. John,
Alwyn, and Adrick D’Almeida,
Mumbai
Mrs. Zeeta, Mr. James and
Pearl and Carol Gonsalves,
Barkur
Mrs. Ophelia, Mr. Simon,
Shelton and Stalin ,
Muscat
Mrs. Marina, Mr. Kishore and
Anirudh, Barkur,
05/05/2006
We
welcome this move, though taken very late to have Bus service Barkur -
Brahmmavar. Season of marriages, feasts and festivals as well as
holidays will be less costly to that extent. Also happy to learn about
Barkur Education Society started long back in 40's, in Archie's
Corner. Feel the article little short to focus on its present
activities.
Nevertheless, an effort worthy now made known to all, that itself
praiseworthy. One word about Masala, it is really tasty and
cherishing, keep it up.
M.M.Alvares,
alvaresmm@hotmail.com,28/04/2006
Denigrating “Bharat Mata”
On
February 6th 2006, ‘India Today’ weekly
carried an advertisement regarding an auction by Action India called
‘Art for Mission Kashmir’ for raising funds for earthquake victims in
Kashmir. Included in the auction were two derogatory paintings by M.F.
Hussain, one of them titled ‘Bharat Mata’ depicting Mother India as a
nude woman inscribed with the names of States and cities on her body.
It is visibly clear the callous disregard shows towards India, the
land where he has flourished.
After
vehement protests and initiated an intense, peaceful public agitation
for these paintings to be taken off the auction and destroyed. Next
day Hussain is said to have issued apology. Ms. Sharon Apparao, the
curator of Apparao Art Gallary declared that the painting will be
withdrawn the next day. On 8th February Ms. Nafisa Ali,
Action India Trust’s spokesperson, on CNN-IBN TV channel, Ms. Ali
claimed that the ‘Bharat Mata’ painting had been sold on the very
first day for Rs.80 lakhs.
So,
everybody should demand the cancellation of felicitation of M. F.
Hussain for lifetime achievement in
India, for drawing Bharatmata nude painting.
AS,
Barkur,25/04/2006
I
wish a Happy Easter to my family , friends and all Bakurians all over
the world .May God's love surround you protect you and be with you on
Easter and always.
Rahul DSouza,
Kazakisthan,
16/04/2006
By
this small note, we wish all our Barkurians, at natives and all over
the world a Happy Easter.
Let
the peace and brotherhood taught by Jesus bring all our readers of
Barkur online more closer to share each others talents and goodwill.
Philip Richard,
Barkur.
16/04/2006
Once again the Feast of Easter at our door step. This time we surely
miss Pedruchi Chavi. Thank God we have Barkuronline to wish all our
friends and relatives - far and near, host of this site and his team
and their families, all other contributors and sponsors, and readers
and visitors a HAPPY AND BLESSED PEACEFUL FEAST OF EASTER.
We
feel the role of the ite must be proactive and constructive in coming
days. Let the regulars be more regular and new one join the stream.
Have a peaceful feast all Barkurians,
Felciana D'Silva,
Kuwait,16/04/2006
A
Landlord of High Repute: A poor tenant went to his landlord to borrow
a donkey to move some fertilizer. "It's on loan already." said the
landlord. At that moment the animal began to bray from within its
stable. "But I hear it bray." said the tenant. "So whom are you going
to believe, the donkey or me?"
James Fernandes,USA,
15/04/2006
Happy Birthday
Jason
and Patrick Andrade 10/04/2006
Dear Patrick and Jason wish you a very happy birthday and many happy
return of the day. May God bless you on this special day and everyday
of your life. Both of you cousins share a same date to celebrate the
joy of your birth. We the family and friends assure you our prayers.
With love and blessings, Your beloved: -
Father Uncle, Parents, Grandparents, and Andrade
family.10/04/2006
Even though it may not be as any big deal, the
recipients from several rural villages seem to appreciate the Village
to College Scholarship Program. This function was held recently in the
New College, “r. Gabriel Fernandes Auditorium”.As
pointed
out by Principal Hebbar, Rs. 64,000/- were distributed this year, the
money well spent indeed.
My heartfelt thanks with immense gratitude to
Fr. Remegius and Hebbar in supporting this Foundation in a timely
manner. Thanks for the pictures too.
If some more names from Barkur were seen in the
foundation’s donor list, there would have been more weight to help
solicit funds from this part of the world. Any outside donor asks,
“How much you have collected locally?”
Well, as I get comments that there are no poor
people in Barkur, I guess, that might be a reason for cold shoulder.
Oh, Yes, I do remind my brother at times, “If you had gone to college
soon upon your high school, you would not have started this program
at all! Just as, when you are healthy you cannot understand the
misery of sickness, so also, the highly educated rich ones, perhaps,
cannot comprehend what the uneducated/less educated lack!”
Dear Barkuronline.com readers this message is
published here not for self/family glorification, as some people might
imply or react! The Foundation has its obligation to report the
activities, and the accountability of funds.
Presently, only part of the donation is given
towards the scholarships. Feel free to spread the word, and, please
recommend any deserving student you know of, who is deprived of
college education for lack of financial support.
James Fernandes, 10/4/2006
For
a change a better one from Fr Tony about Eric Soans. Indeed he is a
multi-talented man and more precisely a good writer and a better
editor. He will be still better if Pedruchi Chaavi is published very
often. All the best and thank you Eric, keep going, best of luck.
Feliciana D’Silva,
Kuwait,05/04/2006
Eric Soans
a person inheriting, possessing and exploiting the great gifts and
talents, for the best use of society and church. Nevertheless, he
proved time again that he is innovative, matured and humble.
‘Choir of our Church’
is just one of his passion as his field of work vary from
literature, a rare mix of mastering prose and poetry at ease, in his
articles and poems, painting, singing, acting, master of ceremony in
many languages like Kannada, English and of course best in Konkani. We
are very happy to read about his one special love – Church Choir in
our site.
For
a while I thought, this Eric has lot many master pieces to his credit
as each and every edition of Pedruchi Chavi is unique with his ideas
in reality. Moreover, couple of years back ICYM – Silver Jubilee
Souvenir another feather in his cap of glory.
I
had a dream that the present Barkur Church celebrating 150year Jubilee
of its existence will commemorate this historical mile stone with a
Book, but not. Still the people of Barkur can hand over this
responsibility to Eric Soans and believe me you can expect wonders in
his hands.
Are
non resident Barkurians have any interest……in this project, and hope
with your support, if there, you can treasure a fitting monument for
future generation to be referred as our own religious-cultural history
of Barkurians.
P.Archibald Furtado,
Muscat, 05/04/2006
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